A comprehensive course that teaches you to marry the desires of your heart to God’s design for your life and use your gifts and purpose to impact the world and live abundantly.

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Before I Tell You About This Life-Changing Program, Let's Talk About Who This Is Really For...

You're a woman who senses you were meant to do more with the gifts and purpose God entrusted to you.  You know you're capable of so much more, but your internal struggle with doubt and fear keep you stuck and stagnant and ultimately away from all you desire and God designed your life to be. 

You're Likely...

A woman who has turned her pain into purpose and has an overwhelming desire to leverage your gifts and experience to help others do the same 

An entrepreneur who wants to align your business with your purpose and become confident and comfortable incorporating a message of faith in what you do

Called to ministry and service but in a non-traditional sense, and you're looking to do a unique work in the world that ignites your passion, and that caters to a specific need

Sensing something is missing in life because you're not experiencing the fulfillment, satisfaction, and abundance that comes with being in an intimate relationship with God

You May Also...

Struggle with being enough

Allow fear to keep you from pursuing what you desire most in life

Believe you're gifted to do something great,  but doubt has kept you from acting on your faith

Wrestle with the "Imposter Syndrome," and you're convinced you need to know more or have more experience before you do what God clearly equipped and empowered you to do

If you see yourself in any of these examples, you've found the right program!  I'm going to tell you exactly how the Ultimate Soulmate will give you the biblical foundation, confidence strategies, mindset renewal framework, and unparalleled support on your journey to living out your desires and God's design for your life.


By the end of this program,

you will have:

a Biblical understanding of the "Ultimate Soulmate Relationship,"--the core relationship between your desires and what God design your life to be

mastered how to discern the authentic desires of your heart and rid yourself of any uncertainty about the unique gifts you bring to the world

fully embraced a radical self-acceptance that allows you to express your unique gifts without the need for external validation, permission, or approval

deconstructed and dismantled the internal voices of doubt and fear that keep you stuck and stagnant 

implemented the confidence-building strategies that allow you to quit playing it safe so you can boldly execute your desires and God's design

Grasped the complete understanding of the distinct role you play vs. the role God plays in you creating a life you love

developed your blueprints to custom create your life YOUR WAY

learned to enjoy your process of BECOMING so that you reap all the benefits of metamorphosing into who God envisioned you to be

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Dr. Vanetta Rather is a gifted spiritual coach who helped me change my perspective about purpose, gifts, and doing what I love.

I worked with Vanetta as a coach. She is relatable, encouraging, inspiring, and literally your personal cheerleader. I am so thankful for her and the work we completed together.

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What's Inside
Ultimate Soulmate Program

Here's why you can have every bit of confidence that this course will deliver on its promises--It begins with a Biblical foundation.  Scripture authority is critical to women of faith, and everything I teach you, beginning in Module 1,  is validated with Scripture. 

In this module, you will learn how God has infused within your divine DNA a vision for your life, which is being revealed through the desires of your heart. Your authentic desires are in lockstep with your God-given gifts and purpose, and a Biblical understanding of this connection is what gives you the assurance to aggressively pursue the desires of your heart.

You will focus on how the Divine "Soulmate" Relationship works and the benefits of this Divine Partnership, which is key to finding happiness and fulfillment in every aspect of your life.

Module 1 is designed to give you the foundation, validation, motivation, and inspiration needed to live a life uniquely suited for you.


Get A Scriptural Understanding of God's Design & Intention For Your Life

God created you for two overarching purposes; because God simply loves you and desires that you experience an abundant, full life and because God desires to use you to play a unique role in God’s agenda to build the Kingdom on earth as it is in heaven. ​ You will learn how the specific work God handcrafted you to do and the abundance Jesus offers you are two sides of the same coin.

Get A Scriptural Understanding of What It Means to Live An Abundant Life

You will learn what abundant life is and how it is the only kind of life that God designed you to experience.  You will also learn why abundant life is not automatic, but a life you must choose.

Get A Scriptural Understanding of the Desires of Your Heart

You will learn how your desires are sacred, holy, and should be treated as such.  You will learn why God honors the desires of your heart.  Finally, you will learn why you must give yourself permission to pursue what you desire most, and what’s at stake and what you forfeit when you allow your desires to lay dormant in you.

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Module 1

A Foundation of Love

Module 2

This module is all about making the mind-shift needed to strip away any foreign thinking and all embedded beliefs that don’t serve who God designed you to be.

You will learn how to renew your mind and align with divine thinking by discerning and then rejecting who you were conditioned to be, so you can embrace who you were created to be. 


You will become unshakable in your understanding of your unique, divine design, and become crystal clear about who you are at your core.  


You will learn why your mind, more than likely, needs renewing, how to reject and dismantle foreign thinking and conditioning that does not serve your unique design, and how to prepare your mind to discern divine thinking.

You will learn why trusting what’s in your heart is a struggle for too many women, why trusting your heart is the best gift you can give yourself, and how to discover the purest and truest desires of your heart.

You will learn why the greatest threat to you living out your desires and God’s design is internal, how to overcome the internal blocks that keep you from boldly believing, and why an unwavering belief in yourself is just as important as your unwavering belief in God 


Becoming One

Module 3

In this module, you will be inspired to let go of who you’ve been and make room for who you were meant to be!  


The late Toni Morrison says, "If you want to fly, you have to give up the stuff (expletive) that weighs you down."


This module will guide you so that you are conscious of what areas you must free yourself in order to fly.

You will learn to free any weighted down parts of yourself, cleave to your unique design, and confidently take the necessary action to soar into what God envisioned your life to be.


You will discover the power of embracing all the unique qualities that make you who you are and to follow the sound of the genuine in you.  You will develop overwhelming confidence that you are exactly who you are supposed to be, which allows you to fearlessly show up in the world.

You will discover how to silence, deconstruct, and dismantle your internal voices of resistance and how to raise the volume of your own internal voice.

You will develop risk-taking tools that will move you forward faster towards your desired goals and master the confidence building process that will help you quit playing it safe and boldly execute the desires of your heart.  You will learn the skills to override the three most common forms of fear that keep you from taking bold action.



Leave & Cleave


The Ultimate Soulmate helps you overcome the number one issue that keeps you living beneath who you desire and God designed you to be.....YOUR MINDSET. 

It's not a lack of gifts and talents that keep you away from all God has for you.  It's a lack of confidence and the other internal obstacles of doubt and fear that cause you to question yourself, your abilities, and even your worthiness.  


The Ultimate Soulmate Course is specifically designed to help you develop the internal strength, confidence, and faith to pursue, create, and experience the abundant life Jesus OFFERS you and make the impact God on the world EXPECTS of you.  

Take A Closer Look
Inside the Course

Module 4

Nothing is more disappointing than taking a course, where you get practical information with no practical application.  Well, Module 4 is all about practical application.  You will learn, in this module,  everything you need to know to create a life you love--a life uniquely suited for you.  

You'll learn to stop waiting for God to do for you what God has empowered and equipped you to do for yourself.  You will discover that there is no wrong way to create a life you love.


In this module, we will cover the three important steps to co-creating with God, a life uniquely suited for you.


The first step is learning how the Co-Creation Process works.  You will learn there is a distinct role you must play in creating a life you love and how creating a life uniquely suited for you really rests on your shoulders.


The second step centers around creating your life your way.  You will learn the secret to custom creating your life by focusing only on your authentic desires and discovering God's unique blueprint for your life. 


The third step in co-creating your life is to make sure you enjoy the co-creation process.  You will learn to enjoy every moment of BECOMING, rather than focusing on the finish line.  There are so many benefits and opportunities for growth on your journey and this module will help ensure you don't miss anything.


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The Ultimate Solmate

4 Course Modules

17 instructional videos that teach you everything you need to know to maximize the relationship between what you desire most and what God designed your life to be

14 PDF downloadable exercises that coincide with each lesson to reinforce the learning

By-Weekly Live Zoom Group Teaching Instructional Encouragement & Support Session 

8 weeks of unparalleled support

Lifetime access to the Ultimate Soulmate Course

You will be given one module bi-weekly so that you have ample time to dive into the lesson and work on the PDF Excercise before moving on to the next lesson. Between the delivery of each module, we will have a live Zoom coaching session.  Delivering the weekly sessions in this way allows you time to focus and meditate on each lesson without overwhelming you, which will help you stay on track to complete the course on schedule.


You will also have lifetime access to the course and can revisit any module at any time after it's delivered.   

Plus Bonuses
that will help you dig deep and continue (long after this course ends) creating a life that is uniquely suited to your desires & God's design

A Year Free Membership to "Fierce Feminine Faith"

Bonus 1

Bonus 2

2 Private
1-on-1 Follow-up Coaching Session

(A $400 Value)

You'll Get:


  • 2/60 minute private 1-on-1 sessions

  • help identifying blocks that keep you stuck

  • assistance in discerning your authentic desires 

  • assistance helping you discern your divine gifts 

You'll Get:

  • Monthly Sermon/Message

  • Monthly Prayer/Meditation

  • Monthly Live Zoom Teaching

  • Access to Fierce Feminine Faith Facebook Group

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Bonus 3

10 Weeks of Live Q&A Sessions Inside the Private Ultimate Soulmate Facebook Group 

You'll Get:

  • Live Q&A/Support Sessions w/ Dr. Vanetta Rather to make sure you get your burning questions answered

  • An active community of like-minded women who are on the same journey to marrying the desire of their hearts to God's design for their lives

  • A space to overcome isolation and refill so that you stay on track

But because I'm really excited to welcome you into the Ultimate Soulmate Course, I'm giving you the opportunity to enroll in the Ultimate Soulmate TODAY at the special price of just.....

Plus you'll be backed by a Risk-Free 

14-day guarantee

Let me say this upfront.....

I want you to be satisfied with your purchase, but I also want you to give your best effort to apply all of the lessons and strategies in the course. I provide a 14-day money-back guarantee for the Program. That money-back guarantee is governed by the following terms.

In order to qualify for a refund, you must submit proof that you did the work in the course and it did not work for you. In the event that you decide your purchase was not the right decision, within 14 days of the first module being released, contact me at booking@drvanettarather.com and let me know you’d like a refund by the 14th day at 11:59 EST. You must include your coursework with your request for a refund. If you request a refund and do not include your coursework by the 14th day, you will not be granted a refund.

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Burning Q's other Ultimate Soulmate students asked

before grabbing access.

I know what my purpose and gifts are, but I hesitate, procrastinate, and let fear keep me stuck.  How does Ultimate Soulmate help me get unstuck? 

The Ultimate Soulmate course helps you work on removing internal blocks that keep you away from what you desire.  The course helps you understand that there is nothing external that keeps you from what God designed your life to be, but what's in you will. Therefore you are given the tools and framework to discern and uproot your internal blocks, and then you're given a blueprint/strategy to create a life you love.

I'm not certain what my gifts and purpose are.  Should I take this course?


Yes, you should absolutely sign up!  The Ultimate Soulmate helps you discern and confirm your gifts and purpose. The video teachings and the exercises are designed to help you dig deep so that you are in touch with the truest and purest desires of your heart, which are always tethered to your God-given gifts and purpose.  

Are there opportunities to hear live instructions and ask questions? 



Yes!  The Ultimate Soulmate Course is designed so that you have two opportunities for questions.  One opportunity is after the Live Zoom Teaching.  The opportunity is in the Private Facebook Group Live Q&A. sessions.  

My schedule can get crazy sometimes. What if I miss one of the live instructions or don't finish the exercises or the videos from the modules sent weekly?


No Worries.  The Ultimate Soulmate was designed with the modern woman of faith in mind! You will be sent the replay of all the live teachings.  You also have lifetime access to the course so you are never really behind!  You can go at your own pace and revisit any module at any time.

What is the benefit of the Facebook Group if there are live teachings?


Both the Facebook Group and the Live Teaching serve as tools to make sure participants feel very supported and have reinforced learning.  The added value of the Private Facebook Group is that you get to interact and have access to the support and encouragement from other like-minded women in the program who are on the journey with you. 

Why are you so confident in the success of the course? 

I'm confident this course will deliver on its promises because I've not only worked this program with women I've coached in the past, but I personally created this course from my personal experience. If you follow the modules and do the work, you will succeed at living out your heart's desires, while you also make the unique impact on the world God designed you to make.

Still thinking about it?

You should give the Ultimate Solmate a

14-day/risk-free try if you are motivated

by any of the following


You sense you were created to do so much more with your life...


If you're not fulfilled in or excited about life and/or if you're not using the gifts and purpose God entrusted to you, it's likely you're living beneath all God intended you to experience.  God created your life to be so much more, but the way to access more is by finding a way to couple what you love with God's intention for your life.   

You have witnessed other women living their best lives using some of the same gifts God entrusted to you, and every time you do it stirs something inside of you. It reminds you that God has equipped you with so much more and you owe it to yourself and to the world to share your unique brilliance.

You're Ready to Take a Leap of Faith...

You have played it safe long enough. 


You know that you're more than a conqueror.  You fully trust that you are fearfully and wonderfully made.  Now you're ready to trust yourself, your gifts, your God, and go for it!  


If 2020 has taught you anything, it has taught you how unpredictable life can be and that we don't have time to waste doing what does not bring us fulfillment.  You hear God saying to you, "THIS IS YOUR TIME."

This Course Resonates With You...

You've been waiting for something to help you get clear about your divine purpose, be more confident in expressing your unique gifts, and have access to a community that supports you and keeps you accountable.  Clarity, Confidence, and Community are just a few of the benefits you'll receive as a participant in the Ultimate Soulmate Course.   

Marrying your desires to God's design for your life speaks to you because it was designed for you.  This course is your pathway to the abundance Jesus offers you and the impact on the world God expects of you.

I personally cannot wait to guide you through the 8 weeks of this life-transforming course.

Marrying the desires of my heart to God's unique design for my life was a game changer for me.

I've experienced what it feels like to transition from working full-time in traditional ministry where I was unfulfilled to creating a space for myself to do meaningful work that satisfies my soul and serves others.

After 16 years of working in the four walls of the church, I left and started a nonprofit that empowers women and girls, wrote two books, and launched a profitable coaching practice that helps women aggressively pursue a life of purpose and passion.

More than anything, I want to share how I made this transition with women who desire to do the same. 

If you're a woman who senses you were meant to do more with the gifts and purpose God entrusted to you; you owe it to yourself to at least take the risk-free plunge to see what your life could look like when you marry your desires to God's design for your life.  

Do more of what you sense God gifted you to do and take steps to rid your life of the doubt, fear, and insecurity that keeps you stuck and living beneath God's intention for your life.  


Should you choose to accept my invitation, I personally guarantee that the next 8 weeks will be completely, utterly, and abundantly life-changing.

I look forward to meeting you personally inside the Ultimate Soulmate Course.



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